According to Paloma’s email, she had read my story in the New York Times, was a career coach and promoted a web site for career management called JibberJobber.com. She asked me to take a look at the web site and tell her what I thought.
I took a quick look at JibberJobber.com, liked what I saw and also noticed that the founder of the site Jason Alba had written a book I’m on LinkedIn Now What???
I was on LinkedIn and making occasional connections, but I wondered if there was a better way to use the professional networking site to find a job.
I responded to Paloma, and she sent me a page of tips concerning LinkedIn, inquired how my job search was going and told me I had to start managing my career. “Shift your thinking from job search to career management,” she wrote. When you change your thought process, you change your strategies. You are in control of managing a long-term endeavor, not merely a job replacement. When you accept this paradigm shift, it resonates in your interview sessions.”
Over my lifetime, my MIT degree and family connections have opened doors for me. I was fortunate enough to have a succession of higher and higher paying jobs—but I never had a career. I rode a roller coaster of challenging new jobs and eventual disappointments and was lucky that after each sharp decent, there was a swift and dynamic ascent. However, I never had a long-term career goal. If anything, I was an expert at changing careers.
Manage my career?
After nine months of unemployment, including over two months of international fame, the concept resonated strongly within me. Career management was certainly something I had not accomplished for myself and with which I could sorely use help.
Paloma suggested I use JibberJobber.com as a database to organize my contact information, so I signed on and started entering the information regarding my new contacts and active leads. I mentioned to Paloma that I wished someone would help me type in my entire shopping bag full of contact information—because the task was too daunting for me—and Paloma immediately offered to help.
Paloma and I started corresponding by email regularly and then we started talking daily on the telephone. Paloma said she was determined not only to help me find a job, so that I could get back on my feet and reunite my family, but she said she would also help me take control of my career.
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